Zinda hun yaar kaafi hai..

Mere hathon hua jo kissa shuru.. use to pura karna hai mujhe..
Kabra par mere, sat utha ke khadi ho zindagi.. aise marna hai mujhe..

Kuchh mangna baanki nahi.. jitna mila kafi hai..
Zinda hun yaar kafi hai.. :(

Yes i am Changing..!!

A message worth sharing though a little longer..

*YES, I AM CHANGING*!

*Days slip into weeks, weeks turn into months and months transform into years. Calendars are changing and so am I*.

Yes, I am changing!

*In certain things age has mellowed me down, in others I have become more aggressive . Sometimes I find myself acting very wise and sometimes I just go crazy. Certain issues will have me speaking vociferously whereas at others I just shrug and remain silent*.

Yes, I am changing! 

After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children, my friends, now I have started loving myself*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I just realised that I am not “ Atlas ” and the world does not rest on my shoulders*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I now stopped bargaining with poor vegetables and fruits vendors. After all, a few rupees more is not going to burn a hole in my pocket but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees*.

Yes, I am changing! 

*I pay the auto / cab wala and walk away without waiting for the change.The extra money might bring a smile on his face.After all he is toiling much harder for a living than me*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I stopped telling the elderly that they have already narrated that story many times.After  all, the story makes them walk down the memory lane and relive the past*.

Yes, I am changing! 

*I have learn not to correct  people even when I know they are wrong. After all, the onus of making everyone perfect is not on me.Peace is more precious than perfection*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I give compliments freely and generously. After all, its a mood enhancer not only for the recipient but also for me*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I have learnt not to bother about my creased shirt or mismatched pants. After all, personality speaks louder than appearances*.

Yes, I am changing!

*Nowadays I don't bother if my hair is not done or fine lines are showing on my forehead. After all beauty of my soul outshines the beauty of my face*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I am learning not to let others make me feel incompetent. After all I am not only what they see in me. I might not be good at certain things but I am excellent at others*. 

Yes, I am changing!

*I walk  away from people who don't value me.After all, they might not know my worth, but I do*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I remain cool when someone plays dirty politics to outrun me in the rat race.After all I am not a rat and neither am I in any race*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions.After all it's my emotions that make me human*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I now tell  people if I like them. After all ,there is nothing wrong in liking someone*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I have learnt that its better to drop the ego than to break a relationship.After all, my ego will keep me aloof whereas with relationships I will never be alone*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I demand  for whatever  is due to me.After all, accepting injustice is almost as bad as doing injustice*.

Yes, I am changing!

*I've learnt to live each day as if it were the last. After all, it might be the last* .

Yes, I am changing!

*I am doing what makes me happy.After all, I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to me*.

*AND I'M LOVING THE NEW ME*

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Jaage hain der tak..

Lines which keep my dreams alive..!!

Jaage hain der tak humein.. kuchh der sone do..
Thodi si raat aur hai.. subah to hone do..
Adhe adhure khwaab.. jo pure na ho sake..
Ek baar phir se neend mein.. woh khwaab bone do..

Am awake for Long.. let me sleep for some more time..
There's still some night left.. let the morning come..
Half and incomplete dreams.. that could never come true..
Let me, in my sleep.. weave those dreams again..

Movie: Guru
Lyrics: Gulzar
Singers: Chithra K S, Rahman A R
Music: Rahman A R

Move On and Let Go..

"There's a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it's not giving up, it's realizing that you don't need certain people and their crap."

There are always going to be certain people within our lives that will slow us down from our forward progression if we choose to allow them to do so.

As the quote states there is a point in life when we must realize that instead of chasing the ones who ignore us, that we must love the ones who love us completely.

Instead of trying to fix everything the way we want it to be in life, we have to work with life the way it is, and even work with variables which we would rather not work with.

It is not about giving up on people, but it is more about being able to tell the difference between giving up & moving on, and stopping others from preventing their own lives to blossom.

Not everything in life is for you and not every situation is for you to fix, sometimes you must let things be, move on, and learn how to let go..

My Attitude - My Life - My Rules